What to Say to De-escalate Tension
What can you say to de-escalate tension? Here are 17 calm lines that take the heat out of an argument, from acknowledging feelings to…
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Mustajab Haider Bukhari is the founder and editor of Response Wheel, where he writes practical, thoughtful guides for everyday conversations.
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